Kid 2 is in Europe with her fiancé for a work conference. She is texting gorgeous pictures from Portugal, while we are texting back proof of life photos of Rito, whom we are dog sitting while she is gone.
In case you are wondering why Rito looks the way he does, it’s because he is mostly chihuahua but he has a Toy Xoloitzcuintli in his family tree.
I’ve gotten very little sleep because Sith Rito awakened at 5:00 am in his crate and was very confused. It was dark and he didn’t know where he was, so he screamed for help. Very loudly. He was reassured that he was not abandoned and went back to sleep, but I couldn’t, and now I’m groggy and exhausted and still need to work today.
Tomorrow is my pre-op appointment with my family doctor to clear me for the cataract surgery, and I don’t want to go. I don’t want to go to Austin, I don’t want to have an appointment, I don’t want to have the surgery, and I don’t want to pay for it. All the Do Not Want ever.
Sadly, I do want to drive and see the computer screen and other things, so putting off surgery isn’t a good idea. The cataract in the left eye has gotten worse from a year ago, and the cost of the lenses almost doubled in the last month. Because I started this process when the lower prices were in effect, the surgeon is honoring the original quotes. ::looks at the giant bill: I’m getting a deal. Oy, US health system. So much joy.
Yesterday was my pre-op appointment at the eye surgeon’s.
Me: Will I be under for the proccedure?
Very nice medical person: Oh no, you will be awake. You will be able to respond to our questions.
Me: I will run away screaming.
Medical person: No, no, you will be sedated. Like for a colonoscopy.
Gordon: We were out during our colonoscopies. They gave us propofol.
Medical person: Yes, it will be like that.
BDH, I am not reassured.
They said the recovery will be fast, and I hope so, because Maggie #2 must happen, both because we are contractually obligated and because it has eaten our brains. We are having deep discussions regarding what might be written on secret scrolls at 10:30 pm.
On the extras front, otherwise known as stuff we work on the weekends, we might have a fun HL extra coming your way soonish. It will be a short story – do not laugh! – and Mod R has read some of it and said this.
I have so many questions!
We used to joke that our book titles should be named Magic Pays For College and Magic Buys New Roof. Since this short will go into the short story collection combining HL freebies from the blog, I’m very temped to name it Cataract Inferno.
Hehehe.
Rito is top two of favorite grand dogs. He and Mona are always a delight.
Onward to better eyes 👀
A professor friend of mine said his 80 year old mother had cataract surgery and was able to read the paper the next morning. It is scary, it is expensive, but they also have this down to a science. I know you’ll be fine, but you will be in my thoughts and prayers anyway. God bless!
+1
I had cataract surgery shortly before Covid. It’s my favourite surgery ever! It wasn’t long before I was unofficially totally recovered, going from 20/650 (almost legally blind) to 20/125 (I can completely function without glasses except for reading tiny things for the first time since 4th grade).
When I had it done they were offering graduated (lineless trifocals) lenses for an upcharge, and talking about the near-future possibility of adjustable focus lenses that would be attached to the eye muscles, functioning exactly like the lenses we’re born with. Has that upgrade appeares on the market yet, or is it still in expected sometime in the near future?
Oh, and the clinic that dis mine specialized in just cataract surgeries. They were busy enough to keep four surgeries running simultaneously all day long, with procedures scheduled every hour or so, as I recall. The waiting room was packed.
Hope, all goes well with surgery and you’re better after that.
short Story or Not: yay!!
also: third! or ist it second?
Re: cataract surgery
Warning: They may try to upsell you lenses which are different for each eye, so you see close with one and far with the other. Unless you already wear contacts like that, you will almost certainly hate it. I know several people who hate it. Just get the basic lenses for your preferred distance, and continue to wear (simpler) glasses as needed. My sister, who does crafty close-up work, is especially unhappy.
Story: I tend to panic having surgery/procedures. So I always warn them beforehand to just knock me out right away. With my 2nd eye, there was a delay in the anesthesia person arriving. They continued to do prep stuff while waiting. I started to panic: “I don’t like this.” “I don’t want to be here.” Then I started yelling. I warned them & they didn’t listen. I hope they learned their lesson.
Good luck with yours!
+1 – have been warned by my doctor not to go that route when I have to have it done in a few years. And I am starting with one nearsighted eye and one far sighted eye (normal condition). On the good news side – my husband had it done and he was reading almost immediately.
Hope the appointment went well. Mom had hers done a couple of years ago, super early in the morning. By that afternoon, she described that the world had regained color like Dorothy entering Oz. Just make sure you rest when your body says to. May your surgeries and recovery go smoothly and quickly.
yes, I had a bad experience when they lazered my eyes with that protocol. What a waste of money. I was back in glasses in 6 months.
That procedure is the standard one the military uses, so everyone that got their degree from the military wants to sell it to you. I tried the bifocal contacts. they reduced the light level so much that could not read in normal indoor light.
Research is important. I haven’t blindly trusted doctors since I was a small child. You want a very experienced surgeon with excellent reviews. He does not necessarily need to behave like an empathic human being, but he needs someone on staff who can.
One of my eyes was so much worse pre surgery than the other, and I had had so many changes over the years, that my brain was already used to suppressing one eye for distance and the other for close vision. Doesn’t bother me at all…though it took a bit of time to convince my brain that my former “distance” eye is now for close-ups!
Seconding this about anxiety. Let them know, make sure they understand and stick up for yourself. My recent surgery I gave them the details regarding IV in the hand is a no go. Thankfully they listened because two previous procedures ended up with them needing to move location from hand to inner elbow mid op. I did not wake up in either case.
May everything go smoothly for you.
I had cataract surgery a couple of years ago — using lasers (not covered, of course). Totally worth it. I was 20/20 in the eye within 48 hours. Now I have .75 readers only.
All my fingers are crossed that your results are as good!!!
It’s funny how being woken up at 3am, in your 20’s is like eh, but the later umm years, it’s like you have been cursed all day with all sorts of evil repercussions.
I don’t blame your concerns over someone doing surgery on your eyes while awake. I think they used to call that sort of stuff torture. Necessary evil we do to be functional and longer living. Best wishes for a good healing
Technically, you’re awake…but the drugs they use are pretty good at blocking the memory circuits so you don’t remember and aren’t freaking out!
I’ve had cataract surgery on both eyes. Yes, it’s scary but the sedation helps. I saw so much better afterwards.
Rito is a gem. Are you also helping with the rest of her menagerie? And have all of the derpy snakes scattered?
Best of luck with the cataracts surgery. Wishing you fast healing and better vision!!
We cannot really watch the shepherds, they would in all likelihood tear Nike and Charlie apart like stuffed toys. As it is, Rito mostly stays in protective custody. He is occasionally allowed a trip to the patio or supervised mad dashes around the house. He is super fast.
Rito is super cute! My mom was really worried about her cataract surgery as well, but she said it wasn’t anywhere as bad as she had thought and it was fine. She had both eyes done at the same time with local anesthesia.
Praying for smooth surgery. My father’s cataract surgery went very, very well…he was able to have his second one the same month. This was about five years ago.
Wishing peace for you and Gordon.
I agree with Kari. Get the basic lenses and wear glasses with minimal lenses when needed. But, I had cataract surgery about 10 years ago and it was the best thing ever! I only wear readers to read! Before, if my glasses fell on the floor I couldn’t see them until my feet found them. My surgery was fast, you weren’t aware of anything until it was over and you can see immediately.
Cataract Surgery isn’t too bad. Doctor does need to ask you stuff during surgery, but all will be well. Use ALL the eye drops, they are important. Do not go with different vision in either eye (as previously noted).
I laughed as soon as I read “short story” and before I made it to “do not laugh”!
by all means, though, I ADORE it when you write “short” stories. I would very much appreciate another…cough…cough…accidental novel.
😜 I think that’s tempting our luck
is that a child of Longcat in your arms? 🙂
Sending good thoughts to you!
My 70 year old Mom had cataract surgery and was walking through the mall the next day and just amazed at how clear and crisp everything seemed. She was reading perfectly, too.
I’m sure you’ll do just fine and be so happy with the results…
However, I do understand the fear. I even Hate having my eyes dilated. I was diagnosed with cataracts a few months ago. My doctor said hopefully they will grow slowly enough for Medicare to cover the surgery in several years, but I’ve always been very scared of anything in or on or even near my eye…..(you know how some people have an almost irrational fear of a dentist with a drill? Well, I’m ALL KINDS of weird about my eyes!). Totally not looking forward to any sort of eye surgery, Will cross my fingers that the drugs are Xtra Great!
I still remember getting contacts in my teens. The nurse got irritated bc I kept flinching, and told me sternly that I had very reactive eyes. I told her that up until then, it was a survival characteristic. We’re supposed to protect our eyes, they’re squishy!
I have this issue also, but it manifests in photography. I blink faster than the film. I spend an hour at the passport office while they insisted on trying again and again with the flash. After it finally started cutting into their lunchtime, they finally agreed to pull up the shade on the great big window, and use the natural daylight.
I am sending good thoughts, prayers and solid gold juju for your peace of mind, safe and successful surgery, and fast outstanding recovery.
Glad the original pricing will be honoured and that you are taking care of yourself. Booooo on surgery.
Yay on HL “short”! Has Janine started laughing yet? Personally speaking, that’s when the Hordeish part of me starts rubbing it’s hands with anticipatory glee.
Heh on the POL petgrams. Sooo much sympathy. And tea. And virtual dark, dark chocolate.
Hey Ilona, i’ve had cataract surgery on both eyes. I want to reassure you about the surgery. It should be quick (10-15 minutes) and pain free (they use numbing drops and your post op drops should also include a numbing agent). There is no lifting at all for the first day or two, but after that life returns to normal including driving. Your vision will be so much clearer and any headaches you get from squinting will go away. I wasn’t happy about having to have the surgery either, for the same reasons you are unhappy about it, but it is so worth it to have your vision back. Sending virtual hugs and tea.
I am certain I am repeating what many have said. I have had both my eyes done and yes, you are awake but really the drugs are good. You won’t panic, you don’t see anything because your eye is frozen and you don’t feel a thing. Most annoying thing was taping on the eye guard before sleeping after the procedure. You can see and read pretty much as the freezing comes out.
Sending you hugs!! I hope everything goes well, and if you need anything, call me!
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Jessie are you also *not* laughing at their “short story” plans?
Can I tell you how happy I am when you and IA book releases are staggered so I get less time between amazing books?
Wishing you an easy recovery.
Hoping your surgery is successful and seeing well will be worth the price.
Best of luck with your eye surgery. As professional photographer, just the thought of someone cutting into my eye is terrifying beyond belief. Here’s to a quick recovery with little to no discomfort.
Sending comforting and affirming thoughts your way.
My husband, who avoids doctors like it is a personal mission, just had cataract surgery 2 weeks ago. He paid extra for the upgraded lens and even as he was getting in the car to leave the facility he said could see a remarkable improvement and considered it worth. Two weeks later, it is even better.
I asked him about the surgery and he said he could see pretty lights like a kaleidoscope, and they were done in under 10 minutes. He is a HIGH anxiety person for med stuff, so he’s my baseline for bad. I hope you see pretty lights and feel safe and the process is quick.
Also hahahahahahahaha—– “short story” I’ve been here since ~2007, so thanks for that laugh.
Both of my late parents, my brother, and some good friends have had cataract surgery. The drugs are very good drugs, apparently, and take care of anxiety. The idea freaks me out, too, but my brother said they worked. Everyone says the surgery is totally worth it. My folks said pay more and get the bifocal lenses. This probably isn’t very reassuring, but I hope it helps a little.
My husband had cataract surgery in both eyes last year and could already see better in a few days. There was a lot of improvement in the first month, but we also had to go back for scar removal this year- just be aware that sometimes happens, and then they shoot a little laser in your eye to clear it back up. Hope it goes well, and try to get the compounded drops if possible- less math on when and how many, and less frequent drops needed. Good luck!!
I was just re-reading Ruby Fever and thinking I’d love to see some more scenes between Penelope and Benjiro. Not asking, just dreaming out loud 🙂
Wishing you great drugs and easy surgery.
Oh Benjiro, I need you!
I hope it goes well. I have to have a stomach scope on the 14th and a colonoscopy on the 28th. I asked why it can’t be done at the same time and didn’t really get an answer. My guess is to charge me and the insurance more 🙄 I am a little scared of what I might say when coming out of anesthesia. I don’t mind sounding silly but I don’t want to be mean lol
Your hospital is probably set up for efficiency and profit for them. Do you have the same specialist for both? They would end up needing to adjust anaesthetic at the least, for a double procedure. You are entitled to answers however, from someone who actually knows the answers. If they don’t know they should volunteer to find out. I was an ICU unit coordinator for a few years, so i have developed skills for dealing with doctors.
The prep for each is different, and doing both preps at once would dehydrate you pretty badly…which is not good for either procedure!
My son just had an endoscopy and a colonoscopy done at the same time. No issues (and thankfully no problems found).
Hubs was in your court prior to his cataract surgeries, but had no problems during the procedures and the results were magical!
Getting this done will make your life so much more comfortable.
Yay for the “short” story!! My life is a storm tossed cruise ship right now. Not as bad as the poop cruise though. I’ve been re-reading books and watching a k drama called Genie, Make a Wish. It has a wise grandmother, the female lead is a psychopath who has to stick to her routines, and the male is a trickster genie who wants to prove humanity is corrupt. But their fates are entwined by a past life .. so she’s not evil and he’s not the total devil. lol nothing is too difficult in it. So far.
Good luck with your eyes. I’d be a wreck too.
Hi, Jenn,
I have started watching Genie, Make a Wish, too! I’ve been explaining (or trying) to my family how interesting the set up is, and I have to say your description is impressively concise!
Hang in there! No surgery is fun, but:
Because of a cornea problem (Fuch’s Dystrophy), I have to have full cornea transplants in both eyes, which also included new lenses. In 2010, it was $40,000 an eye. In the six months between the surgeries, I switched insurance companies and the first one cost me personally $32,000 and the second one cost me $2,800. Still ouch. But – it’s been 12 years, I have gone from so near-sighted I was almost legally blind to 20/25 vision, which is still holding. Up to that point, I would have grumbled that no surgery ever went as well as surgeons forecast it would (and I have lots of scars to prove it). But those complicated, expensive eye surgeries have been wonderful. Also: shout out to cornea donors and their families! Without you I would be blind!
I hear you on being freaked out and “don’t wanna” on the cataract surgery,” but I’ve heard the same as you – recovery is quick.
what i thought of, when you relayed the “awake” conversation, was that “awake” and “conscious” might be 2 different things (I honestly thought of sentient and sapient)
Sending healthy, safe positive juju your way and hoping that they give you the really good meds!
There are technical hospital terms for this. Twilight is a sedation here you are zoned and uncaring, but can answer questions.
Full sedation stops your breathing. This is for major surgery. They stick a tube in your lungs and use a machine to breath for you. They often fail to mention this detail to surgery patients.
Thanks for the explanation. You have explained it better than the Dr could when I asked last time.
I also laughed at “short”. But the eye doctor said I’m getting a cataract in the right but thankfully it not from my medications and there is a lot!
My husband has had cataract surgery in both eyes (not at the same time). Both times his vision was close to normal the next day.
I’m 60 and got one eye upgraded via cataract surgery last year. I’m a big baby and it went fine! I got the light-adjustment lens and had to wear funny UV glasses for like 8 weeks. But I am SO much happier now — more confident driving at night. Although I do still need for reading, I see distance well enough that I can actually see while snorkeling. So book your next vacation to Bermuda or other snorkel-friendly island destination!!!
I also have a reassuring little story for you – my mom got this surgery more than 10 years ago, and she is still not using glasses.
Perfekt sight. And she’s 93 by now!
I love modern medicin!
And yay to the short story – may the horde be lucky and it will manifest into a novella in no time, hehe.
I had my cataract surgery before Medicare, so I have simple lenses and wear glasses to correct for reading. I have no memory of either procedure (done one week apart). If the doctors talked to me, I must have answered, but I don’t remember it. I haven’t had any issues now for almost 10 years!
My husband had both of his cataracts done in 2020 (yes, during the pandemic) and, being on Medicare, opted for the multifocal lenses. He remembers talking to the doctors and commenting on how colorful everything was, immediately after each procedure. He still doesn’t need reading glasses and aces his yearly checkups.
As others have said, use the eye drops completely. They help immensely. And keep all your follow-up appointments. They will also be reassuring.
A toy Xolo!! Did not know they came in three sizes!! Rito is adorable with his Sith cosplay blanket – he does look mostly Chihuahua. Little man, when you relax, you will love being at Grama and Grampa’s house!!
Re: cataract surgery – all the advice above is spot on. I had four retina surgeries where they knock you out with the heavy duty anesthesia, so I wanted the “good stuff”, and was nervous about the “we have to be able to talk with you” part. When we got to the “seeing colors”, it was very much like the light tunnel in “2001: Space Odyssey”. Very trippy!!
Post surgery, colors will be very rich and saturated – I was impressed by the greens and blues. And I went from being near-sighted for 50 years, to far-sighted after the surgery. Driving a car without glasses is still an experience, and my procedure was done 10 years ago.
Sending good vibes and virtual hugs!!
I’m waiting on cataract surgery but it’s not bad enough yet and because I also have glaucoma I’m not that anxious to have it done until absolutely necessary. My husband had cataract surgery on both eyes and had a very quick recovery about 8 years ago.
Not worried about cost since I’m Canadian and have UHC. All costs are covered unless I want upgraded lenses. Even then, I can claim them as a tax deduction.
Did you know that cataract surgery can relieve eye pressure and help ease or prevent glaucoma? When I had my cataract surgeries the pressure dropped from 27 to 13. Really cataract surgery is so routine that the surgery is 10 to 15 minutes, you may be awake, but not aware of it after and it is pain free. Really. you wear an eye cover of clear plastic with holes for one day and 3 night and eye drops for 4 weeks. Easy and the difference in colors and clear focus was just amazing. Cataracts left too long can cause permanent damage. Sooner is better than later. Had it done 7 years ago in both eyes a week apart, and have loved being able to drive without glasses for the first time in my life.
I have never gotten cataracts surgery, but my mother has, and she thinks it’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. This is from the woman who took 7 years to get sinus surgery because the roots of her teeth grew into her sinuses… and is now trying to put off having her sinuses drained (a no cutting type sleepy-time thing) because its inconvenient and someone (two of my siblings live in the same town as her, one even works from home and used to work for her doctor) will have to drive her home. This woman is a retired Navy corpsman and physician’s assistant with a Masters in Oncology…
On another note, I did get PRK (sort of like LASIK), and they don’t put you to sleep for that, they just give you numbing eye drops and then use a laser to slice off layers of retina. Creepy, and a little Clockwork Orange, but other than having very dry eyes for about two weeks, I was almost immediately able to see. That giant bill is still probably less than the cost of the new glasses every time your eyes do something funky if you don’t fix them now. Plus, if you do end up with the adjustable lens, then you’ll be just a little cybernetic and that’s kind of neat.
Both my mother and sister have had cataract surgery, and both had great outcomes. Obviously the person telling you about the procedure won’t be doing it, since they had the wrong name for whatever drug they will use to calm you down, not knock you unconscious.
I’m not at the age of needing cataract surgery yet but I guess it will come so I’m very reassured by everyone’s comments.
However, I’m terrible at eye drops, always have been. Can’t do it – my eye shuts and most of it dribbles outside.
Any ideas what I’d do with the post op drops??
I had cataract surgery about a year ago and, like you, am terribly clutzy with eyedrops. Luckily I was considered a good candidate for dropless surgery and thus avoided the post op eyedrop conundrum. I won’t lie and say the procedure was delightful but being able to drive without glasses was well worth the trouble. Good luck to you and Ilona too and ask about the “dropless” procedure!
I had a good friend who like you, was terrible at eye drops. Her doctor prescribed a gel to administer to her eyes, and her recovery from cataract surgery went great. The only negative was that the gel was not covered by insurance, but that might have changed since her surgery was over a decade ago.
good to know about these options, thanks!!
lay flat on a bed. line the eye dropper up with the inside corner of your eyes. shut your eyes if you want to. then after the drop hits, open your eyes so it goes in. i also turn my head a little side to side so it covers the entire eye.
that’s a new technique, thanks!
That was what I was taught too. Works like a charm !
Sending best wishes for an easy procedure and speedy recovery! And OMG – new HL!!!! ❤️
I had cataract surgery several years ago. You’ll probably be conscious be sedated. Surgery is quick. Recovery is quick – just an eye shield for sleeping the first night, and lots of antibiotic eyedrops for a couple of weeks. I’d been wearing contacts, so I could just stop wearing a contact in the eye that had surgery first.
You’ll be fine.
I had my cataract surgeries in August. I’ve worn glasses since first grade and paid extra for toric lenses to correct astigmatism. Cataract surgery is a miracle in my life! You won’t remember most of what is happening and no pain. The surgery itself takes about 15 minutes tops. Just follow directions with drops and wearing a shield for sleeping for a week and not bending over. No lifting anything more than 10 pounds.
I had 20/20 vision in each eye the day after each surgery! For the first time in memory, I can see while showering! I wish I could have done this years ago. Happy to talk with you about this. You will do great! I was scared but wanted to do my second eye immediately after the first surgery. Trust me, it’s worth every penny and mild inconvenience.
Go for it!
I’m not yet to the worrying about cataracts stage (although the OD found the first signs of one at the last exam). However, I shepherded by mother through hers. When she came back after the surgery, she asked me when they were FINALLY going to get around to doing it.
So HA is writing a thing of undetermined length that will start off life as a short story. Got it. *snicker*
Those of us in the US will be here feeling your healthcare pain and the desire to run away screaming. I also get the whole “I don’t want to do this; I want to HAVE done it. I want it to be so very past tense.”
I can definitely relate to the non-acceptance, all the ‘I don’t want’s’, it’s tough sometimes. Also, the book name has a certain ring to it haha. Good luck and well wishes for your surgery and recovery!!
I’m sending the most positive of thoughts for your surgery and that you have an amazing result. They can’t do my cataract because I am at high risk for retinal detachment.
I had “young person’s cataract” surgery in my early 40s, and my retina detached about a week later. I went immediately to my doc and had retinal surgery that afternoon. Both surgeries went smoothly and recovery went well. It’s not a deal-breaker, and that was 20 years ago.
I had cataract surgery at a relatively young age due to steroid therapy for lupus. I had one eye done after the other, about 2 weeks apart. I chose to go for distance and use readers for near vision needs. I do miss my ability to see small things close up as I was severely nearsighted.
The difference in my vision was well worth it and the results were immediate! It’s been a wonderful 9 years so far, with no regrets despite the cost.
I hope your surgery goes as well as mine.🤗
Adjusting to the loss of my extreme close up vision has been…disconcerting. But I think the trade off is worth it.
Just weird having to take the fact that I have fingerprints on faith. 😉
I forgot to mention that my doctor was recommending NOT to get the multi-focal lenses because they cause problems down the road and don’t work as well as you’d hope.
It will be great when your eye is done! Mine were so easy, and you’ll be so relaxed during the procedure.
Looking forward to purchasing Hidden Legacy: Cataract Inferno 🙂 in support of your medical expenses.
I know a number of people who did cataract surgery, and all healed well and got great results. I wish you the same.
My dad had the surgery last week, and the next day it was life as usual, but without glasses.
Cataract surgery is the best…amazing what you can see afterwards. I feared being awake but the drugs put you in a bliss state and you don’t even know what’s going on.
They would have to give me some serious “I don’t care about anything” meds to do an eye surgery. Something about seeing them come right at you with their lasers makes me squirm. But my Mom had this done and she swears it’s a piece of cake. I hope it all goes well.
And here is where I give a quick PSA- my husband has a strong genetic family history of heart disease. Because of this, his primary care doc recommended a calcium screening test. The scores on that led to several other tests (and my husband is in great shape for 64 and was symptom free) and they all culminated in a stent last Friday. The blockage ended up being 80% in his Left Anterior Descending coronary artery. This artery is also nicknamed the widow maker because blockages in this one lead to sudden death. The calcium scan saved his life because he would have eventually had an event and it likely would have been catastrophic. So anyone who sees this with a family history I highly encourage you to get the calcium scan done! So thankful right now that I am not a widow in making!
I second that recommendation. I’m 56 with a very poor family history of cardiac issues. Last year my Primary Care doctor talked me into the calcium study. I’m generally healthy and moderately fit. My results came back as perfectly acceptable for an 80 year old woman. My cardiologist is now my new friend and many tests later plus the addition of several medications and a few lifestyle changes and I’ve had the test repeated and I score like a 60 year old woman but we’re still working on things. I was extremely lucky that only very minor buildup was found. It was made clear to me that without the intervention I would have likely been dead in five years. Take the test, save a life….yours.
That’s great news! So glad your Cardiologist “buddy” is getting your vessels whipped into shape!
I’m with you both on the calcium scan. I had it done twice as a blood test.
First time, it was abnormal. Then I thought if I was vitamin D deficient. I bought the lowest dose I could find over the counter. Started taking it.
Second time, my calcium level was in the normal range.
It is so good you were able to get this corrected! The number of women with D and calcium deficiency is higher than people realize and so important.
The test to which I refer is a CT scan of your cardiac vessels. They can pick up calcium deposits (which is associated with atherosclerosis) in your vessels and they score it. Depending on your score it’s assessed as a risk. My husband scored high enough that he was referred to a cardiologists to follow up. Looking at my husband the cardiologist did not expect to find anything too significant but something to follow over time. However, after a series of tests (you start with screening tests and if they are positive you follow up with more specific tests) it was clear that despite being healthy and in shape the genetics were having their way in the one vessel. It resulted in a stent that will save his life due to where the occlusion was.
Because of all of this I wanted to encourage people to talk to their doctor about this relatively new test. Not all insurance covers it yet because it is still so new but you can find centers who do it for $150 out of pocket. I wanted to pass on what we learned to the rest of the BDH and keep us and our loved ones from suffering from something preventable!
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Thank you! Will look into it.
RE: Cataract surgury: I was SO glad I got my eyes done. The first (left) eye made such a difference. Clear, not yellow, minimal night glare (things you don’t notice because you get used to things).
HUGE improvement!
Good luck, best wishes and it will be AWESOME!
I had cataract surgery in both eyes some years ago (yay for cataracts at 40) and though I am a physician, eye things really bother me. I told my care team that I needed more sedation than usual because of my anxiety and they honored that. Everyone else I know remembers quite a bit about their cataract surgery and I remember nothing. I hope your team keeps you as comfy as you need! Also, I was astonished and thrilled by all the vivid color that I could see afterwards. I didn’t realize how much vision I had lost until my eyes were fixed. Good luck!
Best of luck with the surgery! I’ve had several friends go through this and come out with excellent results, so I have confidence it will go well.
I had forgotten Rito! thanks for sharing new photo and sorry about the early wake up call.
Yea! New HL short coming (not laughing as I don’t want to jinx this)!
My mom had cataract surgery a few years ago and was quite fearful as she always is. Pretty much in a complete panic. She felt nothing, was in no pain and really didn’t even realize it was happening. In the end, the most difficult task for her was putting her clothing on after the surgery because she wore sneakers that had to be tied. Having nothing to do with the surgery, she has always had a hard time trying her shoes from a bed because the bed sits high for her (she’s short). So wear slip-ons and you should have no difficulties at all!!!
Hugs.
I had Lasix surgery in 2011. They gave me something before the surgery (Xanax?) and I didn’t have a problem. Part of that may have been because I’d worn contacts for 20 years by that point, so not terribly freaked out by stuff near my eyes.
I was surprised at my exam last year when the doc said I had a cataract starting in one eye and that it’s common for people over 50. I didn’t realize cataracts were that prevalent.
I needed cataract surgery on my right eye when I was in my 50s. I was near sighted in my left but no cataract. We decided to do Lasik on the left first so that I would have good vision in both eyes when the cataract was fixed and not need glasses for only one eye. Both surgeries went great and could see normally within a couple of days. Wouldn’t you know the left eye decided to get a cataract a few years later and needed surgery. the doctor had to do some fancy calculating because of the prior Lasik but it all worked out. My prior vision was 20/700.
the surgery was quick and easy. I thought I could see during surgery but probably not really. It looked like looking up through a well to the surface of water.
My husband had both eyes done a few years ago and it turned out great. We both use mild reading glasses. I get mine from Walmart.
I don’t know anyone who had a bad result from cataract surgery but know a few with problems from Lasik.
You will be so happy when it is done.
Yes, I took mother to have her cataracts removed decades ago, and they did what I would call conscious sedation.
And she is very pleased with the result to this day.
Had cataract surgery (2x) and they were painless and very quick. My left eye was the worst. Could hardly read anymore prior to the surgery. As someone who reads for hours every night … The surgery made me so happy. Wishing you a happy outcome. R
My sister wore glasses since 2nd grade-she still has the tiny pink glasses. She had cataract surgery on both eyes and threw away her glasses. Amazing! You will be a bionic woman!
I just had cataract surgery done, and am so happy!
the actual surgery itself is very quick! maybe 10 minutes.
and now I can see beautiful colors again!!! You don’t realize how muted things have gotten until it’s fixed 😊
Be strong, it’s definitely worth it!
I need cataract surgery as well. Thank goodness the cost is covered in Canada but they do try and upsell you on special lenses to correct astigmatism and various other issues. The idea of them touching my eyes totally freaks me out though! I’m going to need all the sedation. Best of luck with yours!
One of the best parts post surgery was going to DMV for license renewal and passing the eye test without glasses. No restrictions on drivers license.
I had to battle my 85 year old father to get his cataract surgery done. Practically a duel at 20 paces. Threatened to take the car away. He got it done and now has 20/20 vision in both eyes. Now he thinks it was his idea 🙄 and says the only regret is he did not do it sooner.
Procedure itself was 20 min for one eye. Immediate improvement the next day. Total healing was a few weeks. No driving for a period of time. Sunglasses when outdoors – wrap around kind. 6 weeks later got the second eye done. Same thing. 5 years later and all is well.
It is one of the most frequently performed procedures and very safe.
Best wishes for the procedure
I hope it’s an Arabella short! I really want Arabella books, but anything from any POV is great.
Because you have made my life better with your writing, I will tell you that you will not know the surgery is happening, and you will feel fine when it’s over. I had each eye done a week apart, and the only anxiety is the worry. But honestly, you will feel nothing And it will be over before you know it. And you won’t remember a thing!
And thank you for your writing. You guys are an amazing team and I look forward to my next fix!! Hurry please!!
As one who’s had the cataract surgeries, you WILL get drugs to slow your roll. You will be awake. Your eye will be totally numbed. Very few places knock you all the way out now for cataract work.
They may also tell you to wash with JUST baby shampoo for a few days ahead of the procedure. You don’t want anything on your face day-of.
The recovery time *is* quick especially, actually, if they do both eyes the same day. I walked out of my first one already able to see better than ever, but plan for a nap and headache pill.
If it’s staggered, like mine was, you’ll have a weird phase of one eye being STOOPID good and one not. I recommend covering one or the other for a few hours each day to let the brain rest. I insisted on the gap being 5 days due to work obligations (my doc wanted months between and I went off).
I took the option to “upgrade” and get my astigmatism fixed w the fancy lenses. BEST extra money ever! I now live with readers for arm-length or shorter, including computer readers.
I will tell you that I am one of the x% of cataract surgery patients who ended up with the hazing showing up a year or so later, but that’s a crazy quick laser zap to clear.
I am both eagerly awaiting cataract surgery — I was too old by the time I could afford LASIK, and my thingiewatsis was too thin*, and so I was not a candidate, and the surgery is the same whether you have cataracts or are just 80% of the way to legally blind with myopia and astigmatism, and the doctor told me to come back between 55 & 60 for it — where was I? Yes. Both eagerly awaiting and absolutely terrified, because my brother told me he was awake for his LASIK surgery and it was no problem at all, but my response is as yours. It sounds like a time to run screaming. I’ve got a few more years to be both. I get it.
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*I wasn’t paying attention, and was actually pissed that he kept talking after “no, come back in 5-10 years.”
I had lunch with a friend on Saturday who recently had cataract surgery and said it was a breeze. There was quite a bit she didn’t remember about the procedure, though.
Will the short story HL collection include the snippet where Nevada showed Rogan the reaction to finding out she was pregnant? I think we were told earlier that that was archived. And what about Agent Wahl calling Catalina to come and convince 2 men to use their keys to open a briefcase simultaneously? Also, Arabella hearing noises from Catalina’s office and going to help out? I’ve looked in free fiction, but didn’t see any of those. The last Arabella snippet you just posted was very welcome, but it made me really, really want to re-visit the HL series. If the new HL extra goes beyond the “short story” label, I will definitely “squee!’ and do a happy dance I’m trying to be chalant, but it’s not working very well. I’ll definitely buy the short story collection whenever it comes out. But no pressure! Thanks for all that you do.
+1!
P.S. Magic Pays for Roof indeed 😂
I kept working after retirement age because Tax Returns pay for kitchen remodel, tree trimming, new bathroom
I had a similar surgery several years ago and had all the same anxiety you are experiencing. But…I ended up having a great experience! I was given Ativan (multiple doses actually due to aforementioned anxiety) which has the wonderful side effect of short term amnesia. So while I am told I was awake for the entire procedure, all I remember is sitting down in the chair, then waking up in my bed several hours later. No memory of being in surgery at all. Nor of apparently texting everyone and anyone on my way home because my partner gave me my phone LOL. I will pray that all goes well!!
About the cataract surgery – I was so terrified about having the surgery that I couldn’t/didn’t eat or sleep for two days before the surgery. I was pacing all over the house. Just a mess. I went in for the first surgery. And found out that all the stuff I put myself through before the surgery was totally wasted. The whole process, from intake to release, was so simple and relaxed (yes, I know- relaxed) that I wanted to schedule the surgery on my other for the next week! The relief that the whole procedure was so easy just shocked me. Also, my sight was so much better that I felt like had been given a huge gift. Please try to stress just a little less.
You’ve probably had your first lens sliced off and new one put on your eye by now. Most had the process right. The surgery is very quickly done. Because I slept on my belly with no pillow I wore the protective cover for three days. The next eye was done seven days later.
I didn’t have perfect 20/20 in both eyes but the new glasses did the job.
The if not mistaken sentence was auto correct and I didn’t notice it. It should be most had the process right. A comment said the Retina was cut which is incorrect.
I fixed what was pointed out 🙂
My cataract experience read at own paranoid risk. Or just skip! Scroll,to read.
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my cataract and lasik surgery experience. I did not have propofol, and was awake, and frankly alternating a demand to stop, begging to knock me out, and likely expanding the curses vocabulary of anyone in the room.
Please make clear you want a drug that works like propofol and have a sweet nap, successful vision improvement. I need retina surgery and have balked because I need to be awake. Will see if the Dr around here use propofol! Never thought to ask.
I had lasik as well at same time. Ugh. I am told by my now multitude of eye specialists the surgery appears correct, but I woke seeing double in left eye, triple in left. They had me wear pinhole glasses for a while.took a months for eyes to track easily. Eventually I left the practice, went to university docs. I have glaucoma that has caused damage despite treatment the past 35 years since it was found. So perhaps vision was not going to improve. The world is still in color, lovely, and audiobooks are my way to enjoy books without using very large text.
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I’m so sorry you went through all of that,Barbara!
((Hugs))
Cataract Inferno would be bought by us all!! The accident novel we would all love!!
My mother (85 at the time) saw clearly pretty immediately after she woke up.
I had one eye that was MUCH worse than the other so I had a toric lens put in to equalize the difference between the two eyes. This was so nice because the prescription between the two eyes got so different it was giving me headaches to read (HORRORS) unless I squinted or closed the bad eye.
may the recovery go swiftly and Cataract Inferno BURN BRIGHTLY! You know we will pay for both eyes!
My mother-in-law had to have cataract surgery about 25 years ago. It was a great success. Her recovery time was about two weeks. I’m sure things are better now that they were then I know you will do well and you will feel better afterwards.
you will be ok. honest
my sister just had cataract surgery. it was easy peasy and OMG she loves her new eyesight! the minimal pain is so worth the gain. Clear vision is not one of the All I Do Not Want Ever things!
Both of my late parents had cataract surgery about 10-15 years ago. Each eye done separately about a year apart under Medicare. They loved the results and said the procedure was pretty much nothing but hated the pre-surgery prep. It may have changed since then but there was the shower with the two different soaps which may dad called the face and butt soap. Drying off with two different fresh towels. Fresh complete bedding on the bed including blanket and comforter. And hardest of all no sleeping with any pets and no interacting with pets after the shower. They had two cats and four dogs so it was a big hassle. Also for some reason my dad had to use a gel after his second eye instead of drops and said he couldn’t see anything until he finished the gel. Best of luck to you. Try to focus on the end results.
It will be much easier than you think. I had some recollection of the second surgery prep but not the actual surgery. No recollection of the first surgery.
Recovery was easy, painless and fast.
Best wishes to you!
I had the surgery done one eye at a time over 2 weeks about 5 years ago. I was back to cross stitching less than 2 days after the second eye was done. I am sure the prep took longer than the surgery did. Here’s to seeing what you have been missing and that will include prayers and loving thoughts!
My husband had cataract surgery at age sixty. He had terrible eyesight his whole life. Practically blind and a stigmatism.
During his consultation they offered lenses that would correct everything!! It was pricey but he decided to try it.
He had a surgery on one eye and the second eye the following week.
Everything was smooth.
Afterwords he almost cried. He said it was so amazing to see well without glasses after almost 60 years. Five years later, he still has 20/10 vision. Worth it.
Hoping your surgery is successful!
I like the alternate titles!
And I would not be reassured either…crossing fingers and toes and whatever else that every thing is smooth and goes better than expected.
I have had catarack surgery done on both eyes. You will not feel a thing and after really no pain. I had Lasik and that was painful after the numbing wore off. You are going to see so much better!! Really.
Do not worry. My dad said his went really well. In and out quickly. They definitely put him under. Fast healing and nearly instant better sight.
I had cataract surgery on both eyes in 2020, the first on my 64th birthday. Prior to the first surgery I told the doctor that rationally I knew millions (?) of these procedures have been done and I’d never heard of anyone changing their mind and running screaming from the room, but I just didn’t understand how anyone could sit still and not panic as the operation began. She said “Oh, we’re gonna drug you. You won’t care.”
And I didn’t.
Not only did I not feel any anxiety during the surgery, as I was leaving the building I could see so well through the shield taped over that first eye that I thought “wow, I can’t wait till I have the other eye done!”
I had been horribly nearsighted since childhood. And now, after the surgery, don’t even need reader glasses if lighting is good enough. (It did take me a couple weeks to stop trying to take my glasses off when I went to bed.)
I completely understand your concerns….and suspect you, too, will have a good outcome. And good drugs. 😊
I want to reassure you about cataract surgery being relatively low impact and easy to bounce back from. I had both eyes done–two weeks apart, and had to buy reading glasses for books.
Other than that, no pain from the surgery, and only had an eye covered for 12 hours. Piece of cake. A tooth filling is more annoying than this…
Nothing can cure your fears, but we can help reassure you.
I can vouch for the doctors that do this kind of work. You’ll be in good hands, they do a wonderful job, and you’ll be thrilled you had it done.
Run new plot lines thru your head and it will be over in no time.
oh, much good luck,
I had cataract surgery, both eyes, almost five years ago . It was a miracle. I still only have 20/25 or 20/30 cause I was sooo almost blind between my old eyes and the cataracts. I paid for the stigmatism lenses, still not 100 percent but so much better than before the surgery.
I did the surgery with no drugs as I get vertigo and other lovely things from many drugs. It was such a nothing. Fast, bit uncomfortable, no pain.
I wish you well and the miracle of fabulous sight.
My pre-cataract surgery anxiety was high. My husband prescribed audio books (a new experience) and we all listened to Innkeeper for two days after the procedures. (Now I listen daily, in addition to reading the books and ebooks.)
🤣😂🤣😂 I like the name of your new novella; Cataract Inferno, Surely
A nice addition to the Roman Chronicles since he deals with Chernie😋
On cataract surgery, I had it done. They said the same things, you’ll be awake, yada yada.
I came back to my senses 20 minutes later and asked when theyll get started. All done, it was done! No pain at all afterwards and just precautions about looking down, lifting heavy weights, etc.. for a couple of days? Listen to the precautions bcse if you don’t thats when the problems start.
I wish i had the surgery earlier, corrected my vision and the clarity is amazing. Its like two different bulbs, soft yellow then and bright white now, wow.
Cataract surgery is awesome, imo. The surgery is easy, the recovery is fast. Seeing without glasses or contacts hadn’t been possible for me since 1970 (I was 10). I LOVE how well I see now, and I’m still grateful several years into it.
It must be scary to have someone cut your eye open, but if it makes you feel any better, they’ve been doing cataract surgery in India since the 6th century BCE, and while it wasn’t as good as today’s, it genuinely helped, people didn’t go blind or anything. So, no fear! This is a way better surgery to be having than many others
I had my cataracts removed prior to 2020. Since I was not 65, I had to wait until they could not correct my eyes to 20/40. Yes, we paid for a large chunk of the surgery. Yes, I only had the basic lens inserted. I am a light weight when it comes to any type of sedation. My brain does not like it. I have brain fog for a least 3 days after a colonoscopy. They said I was out cold for both surgeries. My husband didn’t allow me to drive for 3 days after each surgery.
That being said, I am still 20/20 in both eyes. This is remarkable since prior to my Lasik surgery in the early 2000’s I couldn’t even read the big E on the chart. I also have severe astigmatism in both eyes. I am still in 2.5 readers so I can devour your books.
You will be SO glad you had cataract surgery! Too bad you aren’t able to wait until you have Medicare coverage but it is obviously time to get it done!
Just one of those things that growing older gives us.
Will be saying prayers for you.
My cataract surgery was a breeze, except for the stooped nurse that didn’t want to follow protocol and scan my armband. I was right to throw a hiss fit because she almost OD’d me with a different patients meds.
I had my surgery one morning and the next drove 4 hours for Thanksgiving. that was 8 years ago and seeing is wonderful.
you will do great.
You are incredible, Ilona! Facing something that is truly upsetting (in so many ways) for you and you STILL are offering tidbits of awesomeness to the Horde!
We are not worthy………
Sending peace and healing thoughts to you and Gordon.
Looking forward to the “short” story. 😉 I’m trying not to laugh.
All the best wishes on the surgery. From what I read from the posts, the Horde is reassuring and cheering you on. 😁
I remember when Conan the Barbarian was a big book franchise. Steve Perry wrote several of the books – he said his favorite was Conan and the Hot Tub.
Love hearting the excitement & passion for Maggie 2, as in secret scrolls in the night. I, too, would be thrilled with a new shirt from you, of absolutely any length. I read other things, but every time I come back to read Gordon & Ilona my brain sighs and my heart is happy.
Please don’t worry, Ilona! I had *both* of my eyes done, and what a wonderful difference!! Colors better and brighter- check!
Seeing things clearly from far away- check!
Long blinks to compare the first eye done to the duller, less focused to-be-done eye- soon! Believe me, you will!🤣
Glad you got it done- you will be.
Laser surgery is the way to go; I splurged and got the lenses where you only have to wear reading glasses very close up.
You will have follow-ups, and a good Doctor will insist, at least for the first year.
Unless something with your eyes are totally different than normal, it’s a piece o’ cake!
Sending good energy for you and your surgeon!
HUGS!!
Had this surgery a year ago. No pain, although the numbing eye drops sting at first. Don’t remember much, they call it amnesia juice. You have to be able to move your eye when the surgeon says to. I felt some pressure and saw interesting colors.
My MIL just had cataract surgery. It took almost 2 days for the dilation to stop, but once it did she was very happy with the choice to have the surgery. She was not completely out, but VERY mellow.
I did it awake with just local anaesthetic because I *really* don’t like anaesthesia, and while it certainly wasn’t fun, it wasn’t as bad as I thought. Not even painful, you mainly just having to stay very focused staring at a really bright light while the world goes psychedelic cause you have no lenses in your eyes. All that to say, if you are under propofol you will be just fine. I wouldn’t worry about it
I had cataract surgery at 53–I blame being on a computer since 1983 for having to have this surgery more than 20 years younger my grandmother had to. Suggestion, in case you haven’t already made the choice: because you spend so much time doing up-close work, you may want to choose lenses that are corrected for upclose work and just get glasses for driving. I wish I had done e that because I am on devices and drawing and crocheting and I have to use glasses for all of that. I would rather just use them for driving.
Yes, the surgery is scary to think about, even with the pretty little “I don”t care about anything but the pretty lights” drug. I have a low pain tolerance and am very nervous about medical procedures, particularly my eyes, but … it was actually okay. Just don’t think about it(yeah, right) or go to your happy place. I was really shocked by how well I handled it all. I am a scaredy cat—you will be able to handle it too. Just try to think about elephants instead of the procedural bits.
Good luck! Being able to see well again will be worth the no fun part to get there.
I was surprised how much better I could see after my cataract surgeries. I would describe the anesthesia as a “twilight sleep”. I was aware of little things here and there, but slept through most of it. Drops were also put in my eyes to numb them. Waking up after the twilight sleep was much easier than from general surgery. I felt better after my cataract surgery than I did after LASIK.
Also, the nurses were kind enough to scratch my nose for me. Arms are restrained during the procedure (which is very quick) so that you don’t go sticking your fingers in the way.
I hope all goes smoothly for you, and that you heal quickly and completely. 🤗
They did something similar to me for a procedure. The doctor referred to it as a twilight state. (But oddly, I did not dream of shiny vampires.) I was able to wake up quickly, with no after effects like nausea, and most importantly, I didn’t remember a thing. I hope you come out of this with only the enjoyment of improved sight.
Aside from all those nasty eye drops, I had a great experience with cataract surgery. I, too, was surprised to be awake but the drugs are cool. After all the prep, arriving early, office procedure, the surgery took all of 5 min. I walked out with 20/20 and my eyes were so bad, my vision couldn’t be corrected with glasses. I got a lens to correct for my astigmatism … not covered by insurance because it was COSMETIC …lmao
Best of luck with your surgery.
My husband has had cataract surgery twice, once for each eye. He was offered 3 options for sedation and both he and the surgeon were very happy choosing ‘totally out’ as the best option in his case. He was super flinchy with just eye drops. He had lots of astigmatisms, so decided to get the more expensive lens which corrects for that. We had to pay extra and it was well worth it! The day after the surgery, when they took off the eye patch his vision was 25/20, better than before the surgery. Once it settled in, it improved to better than 20/20! Because the new lenses correct his astigmatisms, his vision is better than before he got cataracts. He has an easier time driving at night, etc. But he does need reading glasses, which he just mostly needed before. Although sometimes he can compensate w e readers.
He recovered quickly and followed all his restrictions(no bending, lifting, etc). Recovering from the anesthesia was the main thing for the first couple days. He asked if I’d called his Dad after the surgery about 5 times on the ride home. It got kind of hilarious. But for him, the sedation WAS the same as for his colonoscopy-propofol(totally out).
But the medical people should not b giving confusing answers regarding your treatment. If u prefer to b completely out, that is absolutely an option, and well worth calling your doctor to confirm ahead of time. Overall, the whole thing was as good of an experience as any medical thing can b. Sending good wishes that yours goes as well as his. I’d guess you’ll b back to work pretty quickly. ((Hugs))
Having had both eyes done in my 70’s , take my word for it , There is no pain , None whatsoever, relax , you’ve got this, and the colours and clarity ! Well , just fabulous, , looking forward to the next new snippet.
I used to love to drive. It was my escape from the drudgery of everyday life.
The local landscape of high mountains, towering pine trees, twisty, narrow roads and clear blue lakes is a sight to behold.
So I might understand the need to make sure my eyesight is the best it can be… for my age.
I don’t drive much anymore, but, occasionally, my husband and I will take little day trips just for the fun of it.
I remember there being a lot less traffic when we first married almost 40 years ago. My tolerance for idiotic drivers is a lot lower now.
Please, enjoy the new, clearer eyesight, but watch out for crazy drivers!
Take care.
Toodles!
Eye Surgery: Good luck with the surgery!
Watch out for cr*zy drivers on the way home!
Toodles!
After my very very long ago rotation in ophthalmology in Med School I decided, never to chose a field where people stare me in the eye, while I do surgery on them…. I guess being the one in the operating table isn’t fun either.
I wish you all the best with the cataract surgery!
There is nothing to cataract surgery, although the month worth of eye drops can be a PITA. There is no pain with the surgery.
I’ve had cataract surgery in both eyes. Recovery time is short. Because I wasn’t put back to full vision due to other eye issues one I had my new updated glasses I was fine. The only thing was as they need to lubricate the eye whilst replace the lens so got a bit wet!!😁😁 I was on my way home with a plastic eye patch in a couple of hours. The eye patch clear plastic with holes in made me feel a bit piratical.
worry not. it’s a doddle.
it’s an easy procedure and they tell you what is going on at every stage at least they do in the UK
Yes it’s bloody expensive but both eyes done and now…..I can see and don’t need glasses at all!
good luck xx
Hey, that cataract surgery is a breeze. And you will love being able to see. I had it done a year ago for both eyes, and the recovery was nothing. Plus, they gave me the same speech that you got about the anesthesia — I don’t remember a damn thing about the surgery, and it seemed to me I was out cold. I have had a LOT of surgery, including gastric bypass, and that one was not painful or scary. Expensive, yes. Scary no.
Just stopping by to say that, while no surgery is minor and eyes are squick-making, my experience was outstanding and just about everyone I’ve known who’s had it has had a decent experience. It made a huge difference in my vision. I hope you will be pleasantly surprised.
Hi Ilona,
I had cataract surgery a year ago and it is not as bad as you think. 2 hours after surgery I could read an eye chart from top to bottom. Your books were the only ones that had print I could read until I got my new reading glasses, so I binged on audiobooks and Innkeeper books for 7 weeks.
The surgery is a little scary at first, but it is not painful. The hardest part was the second one as I was over it all by then, but both eyes took 45 minutes, and my ability to see blue light and colours was wonderful within a few minutes. I have to admit that I had fun with the 2 holey eye-covers afterwards, as I was leaning against a wall while my husband paid for parking. A small kid came barreling around the corner and saw my insectoid visage. His yell of fright and tumble backwards still makes me giggle.
It is good to have my vision back. You won’t know yourself afterwards. I recommend simple crochet or knitting and audiobooks and the microphone on Word. (I had to write lesson and unit plans for my classes, and it was a lifesaver.) All the best and I will be thinking of you.
Good luck with your surgery!
We’re traveling in Europe and our son is sending us proof of life photos of the dog at the moment. She goes through life expecting nothing less than abandonment, though, so no screaming. She will grumble and bark at us when we get home, though.
honestly, those would be hilarious titles and certainly eye catching 🤣🤔
hope all’s well at the appointment and can safely proceed
I had cataract surgery done in both eyes but not at the same time. You are not put to sleep but given something where you don’t feel any pain in the eye and you are a little relaxed. It is like an out of body experience you read about. Yes you can hear what is being said. First time I was nervous and my blood pressure went up but second time I knew what to expect and blood pressure stayed down.
Cataract surgery feels like the best nap ever. Just be well hydrated because the cannula blows cold and dry (your nose might feel like you’ve been outside in dry winter air). The surgery is super quick to have and super quick to recover from.
Embrace the nap!
I’m an optometrist and I’d ask if you need both eyes done, as if you have zero post op in one eye and a moderate existing Rx in the other it’s going to really take some getting used to. I see post op follow up nearly every day, and the feedback is 99.9% positive.
If you do decide on multifocal IOLs, I would check out feedback on design beforehand as it’s a much bigger procedure to have these taken out and swapped with monofocals. That said, the database and knowledge goes back 30 years on the current procedures and implants, prior to that it was a bit hit and miss. I’m old enough to recall cataract surgery without IOL, and having to teach you to use hard contacts afterwards.its moved on quite a bit since then
I am an OR nurse. I have done cataract surgeries. If you want to know how the sausage is made, PM me.
I’ve just had my second eye cataract surgery (although it’s in the UK, I shouldn’t think that there’s that much difference). I can confirm that whilst you are awake, the eye is completely deadened so you don’t feel anything except a small pressure whilst they put the new lens in. You also can’t see what’s happening – which sounds a bit counter-productive, but there’s a very bright light with some shadows. it’s all you see. I’m the biggest wuss going when it comes to doctors/dentists but even I managed to survive the procedure with very little trauma. I woke up the morning after the first operation able to see clearly for the first time in years. The eye drops are a chore, as is the “don’t bend down past your waist, don’t lift anything over 10lbs and don’t rub your eye!” but it’s worth it!
Good luck with the cataract surgery. No, of course you don’t want to go there. Who would.
I understand very well since I don’t want to go to my dentist tomorrow for surgery. But I’m getting implants and the gums must be cut open again.
please edit all the online books and use those alternate headings as the dedication
for example keep the original; “to kid 1 and kid 2…..etc”, without whom this book aka magic pays….(insert costly expense) would never have existed 😀 😉 😄
that should say online books 😘
fixed 🙂
Best wishes for a speedy recovery, eyes will be so much clearer. Love little Rito cute 💖
I’ve had the cataract surgery. I could read my name on my mailbox from two feet away without glasses when I got home. Mind boggling.
It’s a strangely unpleasant experience (with kaleidoscope weirdery going in if you’re awake) but it’s quick and it’s effective.
Sending warm thoughts and pets to the non-humans.
(Writing from Switzerland. Insurance is really good here, but I don’t want to rub that in)
Good luck with everything! Honestly just enjoy the updates and a glance through the window into your lives. I a bit in awe at your level of productivity though. I am a professional daydreamer with no ambitions to change!
I don’t know if it helps, but I had lens implant surgery myself, I think it’s comparable to cataract surgery except for my original lens is still there. Basically I was so high on anti anxiety meeting that I wasn’t even considering that it was weird that I wasn’t scared. Also recovery went superfast. I hope you will have a comparable experience.
My mum had this kind of operation. It is normal for the most patients to see very clearly afterwards and that very quickly, so this I can confirm.
Feel hugged and reassured!
Another serial would be so neat! I only got here when the Inheritance one started and i enjoyed it tremendously!!!
I had cataract and glaucoma surgery a year ago. I was nervous but it went fine. There is no pain. Just make sure you follow all protocols . There are a lot of eyedrops but a while. I still wear glasses but the prescription is much less. You will be fine.
I hope you love your new eyes as much as I do
I can wake up and see now without glasses
Miracle!
I had cataract surgery done about 3 years ago and you really don’t feel anything after the anesthesia is given. The thing I disliked was the waiting for surgery in the pre-op. Otherwise it was very easy. You are awake and actual surgery took about 5 minutes. Good luck and relax.
I feel your pain! I found out week before last I’m going to have the joy of cataract surgery as well. I’ve already had 2 rounds of RK/Lasix surgery, so its not so bad. After a couple of happy pills, you’ll be game to try to do the surgery yourself.
Good luck, and sending healing thoughts your way.
there are secret scrolls in Maggie? Hmm I must have missed that before now I want to know what is on the scrolls too.
looking forward to the “short story” HL as all members of the BDH I crave new ink.
Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Sith chihuahuas who wake you up are evil. As someone who has had cataracts, secondary cataracts, two glaucoma surgeries and a detached retina, I can tell you with 100% certainty that THE absolute worst part of cataract surgery is the waiting after they gown you up before the surgery. The actual surgery itself is literally nothing. They give you enough drugs to make you blurry and not worried, numb you up, and you’re done in under 15 minutes. If you chose to have your vision corrected, as I did, it doesn’t add anything to the surgery. You just wear dark sunglasses home and sleep in a dark room with a piece of plastic over the eye so you don’t accidentally scratch it. You may be light sensitive and have dry eyes, so keep eyedrops like Refresh or Systane around, not Visine. It’s very, very easy. Most people are working the next day, some need a few more days. If you did have your vision corrected, it’s easiest to have a new lens for your glasses made without a correction. Good luck!
I had cataract surgery last year. It was not a pleasant experience but the results are so worth it. I had 4 pairs of glasses, one for reading, one for computer, one for driving and one for crafts. With the surgery, I have one eye to see close and one to see far – I can now read your books without coke bottle glasses and see road signs when driving. You will do great!!!
You want the cataract surgery. Seeing colors is so much better than having everything yellow, than having glarey rings around lights at night. Single focus lens, distance. Continue to wear glasses. Less expensive, less chance of failure,
Been there, done that. Knitting/crocheting are a different focal length from reading or computer screens, than cooking/chopping vegs.
All the best
– H (been there, done that a couple of years ago)
I was terrified to have this surgery. It was easy. Twilight sleep and less then 30 min. later I was getting ready to go home. Best of luck to you.
I had the lens implants back in 2021. I didn’t have cateracts, I just wanted to see better and Lasik wasn’t an option for me.
I have progressives and I’m very happy with them. It did in the end take 3 or 4 days to get use to the vision adjustment, but no glasses or contacts after a lifetime was wonderful.
I’m Canadian so I doubt pricing would be comparable but I did pay $7200.00. CAD.
I love swimming and diving and was having problems with contacts.
Your surgery isn’t by choice but I think you will be happy.
The surgery it self was very short. They freeze your eyes so you don’t feel a thing.
I don’t like drugs so I said no thank you to the valium or whatever it was they give to keep you calm.
I chatted with the surgeon through out and it was kind of a neat experience. I’m not really an excitable person though.
You’ve got this! Just think, no more glasses!
I can completely understand how you are feeling! I had cataract surgery last year, I am an RN but was extremely resistant to doing it. I didn’t want to go into Austin either! But I did, and I am amazed. The surgery was so quick, minimal pain and I had the second eye done a week later. Just remember sunglasses! My eyes are still sensitive to very bright sunlight, otherwise it’s awesome!
Good luck for your surgery and if its any help my grand mother had this very same surgery for cataract in both eyes and she was 80. went without any problem and she live til 98. So you got this, take a deep breath go in get it done so its in the past. Hopefully you won’t exclaim like her :” its so dirty i couldnt see any of this before why didnt you all told me ?!” (telling her would have been a Bad Idea) when you are back home.
Everything will go well 🙂
I said the same exact thing after my cataract surgery. I was appalled at how dirty my house was! And no one told me!
Wishing you good luck & quick & uneventful recovery! Hopefully they’ve gone over the post-op protocol with you? A few years ago my sis-in-law had both eyes done, & she said she saw things in wierd colors for awhile after the surgery, like the highway looking peptobismul pink and flourescent yellow-green! Gaaah! It did go away.
At least in the US system you can get things done in a timely manner. Not months or years later.
Mom had both done. She didn’t have any issues. I haven’t heard of anyone who has.
I too would want to be totally under.
I was also terrified of having cataract surgery but I’m here to tell you it was THE best thing I have ever done. Not only will you be able to see clearer but you will also see vivid colors. I crocheted a scarf in what I thought was an eggplant color but after the surgery I found to my surprise it is a lovely shade of a brighter purple.
Good luck and I am sure you will be grateful also when it is all over and done with. I had mine two consecutive weeks and the second time was not even scary.
I don’t know if you have friends who have already had cataract surgery, but the people I know, without fail, have been THRILLED to bits by their results. No complications and VISION again. I’ve literally never heard about a bad result. You’ll be so thrilled to get it over with.
I’m with you on not wanting any surgery. Had minor knee surgery this summer, which I was dreading big time, but it went well and I’m glad I did it. My husband had cataract surgery on only one eye many years ago. He had terrible vision so when he had the other eye done a couple years ago he had to have lasix surgery on the other eye to correct his vision so the vision matched in both eyes. He wasn’t happy with the lasix and does wear glasses still. Hope you’re having both eyes cataracts replaced, which is what they do now, so your vision will match in both eyes. Also, you will be awake for the surgery but will not remember it. My husband said he didn’t remember talking to the doctor during surgery at all. Good luck!
Hang in there. I had my cataracts done in 2017. The sedation helps the nerves a lot. After, for the first time that I am aware of, I could read a wall clock from across the room — without glasses. And no pain, just a short term bit of what felt like dry eyes. The drops they gave me helped that.
both my parents have had cataract surgery. it WAS very fast recovery for both of them. even my mom who is a whiny pest post anything. the med they’ll give you will likely keep you awake enough that you will respond when they ask you stuff but you won’t remember shit after… just like your colonoscopy. has someone else drive you, you’ll be either high as a kite or out cold, either way your vision will be off till your eyes adjust to what happened. dad took hours, mom took a day
My dad just had cataract surgery on both eyes, a couple weeks apart. For him, the surgeries were a snap, but he did require antibiotic drops for two weeks after each eye (something you may need, too). That was the worst part for him because he’s never worn contacts and HATES putting anything near or in his eyes. I earned my Heroic Daughter badge yet again by dutifully putting the drops mostly in his eyes…some may have splashed onto his cheek when he jerked away from the (perceived) acid burning eye stuff. Best of luck on your cataract surgery! 🙂
Getting my cataracts fixed was magical. I had no idea that I had lost how blue the sky was. Everything was crisper and more colourful. As I had had my eyes lazered 25 years ago, I upgraded my lenses- not sure if it was necessary, but the whole procedure was only 1K so, I went for it. The surgery is not traumatic, and over in 15 minutes per eye. Best wishes for your surgery and recovery. I hope you enjoy the results as much as I have.
Your surgery will be fine! I had cataract surgery using the laser. They stick this thing over your eye and tell you not to move so of course, you suddenly want to pee!
Next came the lens placement and your in lalal land. When you come too, there will be an eye patch on your eye and gradually it starts to hurt a bit so bring Tylenol and water with you. Rest up for a day or two and be amazed how clear the world will be!
I opted for the distance lens. Works great as I can see when I get up in the morning, no foggy lenses on cold or humid mornings! So much joy! Downside is I wear reading glasses in a chain around my neck because I can’t read or crochet without them . AMAZON has some great selections. I also would suggest buying multiple reading glasses after you recover. I leave them all over because inevitably, I remove the glasses to do something and forget.
There are tri- distance cataract lenses but they don’t readjust as your eyes do with regular glasses per the doctor.
Good luck, relax and the joy of seeing clearly will make you wonder why you waited so long!
I will send you healing thoughts. I had the cataract surgery on both of my eyes. It was painless and the results were amazing. I could see so much clearer and colours were so brilliant again.
Don’t be afraid of cataract surgery! I had both eyes done 10 years ago. it was easy and the 20-20 vision was awesome.
I’m sorry Rito is having “miss Mom” problems, but I’m sure Kid 2 will be home soon
I got cataracts in my 40s and have had both eyes done. I had an astigmatism and some kind of scarring on my second eye so the surgery was slightly more involved that time (and way more expensive, sigh) but there is virtually no recovery time for either surgery. They gave me Ativan, decided I was not relaxed enough and gave me a second dose, so I do not remember an hour or so. But as soon as I was awake, I could see! And for someone who had worn glasses since 2nd grade, that was wild. They do super dilate your eye and that takes a little while to go away, but I was back at the computer the next day. I hope your surgery goes as smoothly as mine did.
I was a -13 prior to cataract surgery (this January/February), in both eyes. Probably due to the cataracts (I had been bopping between a -10 and -12 for years prior to this). I got correction for distance (which is weird because I’ve been myopic all my life), with laser, and astigmatism correction, and a bonus omni procedure to ease or eliminate my glaucoma.
The surgery was 15 minutes or less. It took longer to administer the anesthetic. I kind of remember it, but it was NOTHING. A few moments of discomfort and that’s pretty much it.
The. Next. Day. I was testing at 20/30.
My last eye appointment I tested at 20/20. My glaucoma? Backtracked; I’m off the drops and have gone from every 4 months to every 6 months check in. I may be cured.
I can tell I’ll need the follow up zap to clear protein buildup. The loss of up close vision is disconcerting, but my night vision has NEVER been better, and I really enjoy being able to see things again.
The cost with my insurance initially was $7,000. They refunded $2,000 a bit later. If I had skipped the “extras” (laser, astigmatic correction, Omni procedure) it would have been $800.
Worth. It.
May your surgery (or, hopefully, surgeries) go as smoothly or better. The only real PITA is the followup care (drops, drops, drops, the guard at night, and the ointment at night for me).
I wish you the best!
I drove my 76 year old mother to her cataract surgery six months ago. It was quick and painless and she felt so good afterwards that she refused to stay at my place for a few days and instead was fine alone at her home.
It’s freaky and scary but will be okay. One interesting thing is that my mom found out that she’s been seeing through a yellow tint for years, and that the white towels and sheets she bought really are white and she didn’t need to return them for being slightly yellow.
I only needed one eye done, so now I can switch eyes to see things more yellow or more blue. It’s kinda funny!
Good luck on your cataract surgery. My husband had both eyes done and he’s no longer wearing glasses. He’s thrilled.
Short Story!! Yay!
Both my parents had to have cataract surgery, I’m next up, but so far my vision isn’t ‘bad enough’ for surgery.
My Mom had her lens fixed for far sight so she didn’t need glasses to drive anymore. She does use cheap Walmart reading glasses, in multiple colors, which she has stashed around the house.
She’s in her 80’s now and still drives. There’s a bright side.
Keeping you in mind for swift healing.
Sith Rito is such a lucky dog to land in your family.
My catarracts out 2 weeks apart, and I AM PHOBIC of anything near my eyes. No problem, whatever they gave me, I gave them NO problems. Healed up fast too.
You will too. Good luck, you will enjoy seeing colors again.
Poor Rito! I’ve woken up scared in my grandma’s house because I’d forgotten we drove there too. ‘S no fun.
Interestingly enough, in the last 5 years, two other authors I enjoy, Katee Roberts and Annette Marie have both had assorted conditions that prevented extended time looking at computer screens. They both wound up doing speech to text. Neither loved it, but it worked.
I hate that the US medical system allows for so little rest. May your surgery be the most straightforward ever, and the recovery be swift and gentle on you.
I know that no two people have the same body/medical status/overall experience, but FWIW my cataract surgery was almost like not having surgery except that my sight suddenly got better. The procedure itself lasted maybe 10 minutes. I think they spent more time getting me comfortable on the table (do you need support under your neck? are you warm enough? do your arms feel supported?) than doing the procedure. I am NOT exaggerating to make a point; that is actually how it seemed.
I expected being awake to be terrifying. It was not. Mostly weird because all you see is blurry light that sometimes changes shape or color.
My vision tested at 20/25 within half an hour after the procedure was done.
I wish you the a quick, comfortable procedure and wonderful, better vision!
I had cataract surgery this year and it was painless. Biggest annoyance was the drops you need to put in your eyes for weeks after surgery. I am bad at putting drops in my eyes. They often ended up on my cheek, on my eyelid, on the side of my nose… I did get better with practice, thankfully! I had back to back surgeries first right eye, then the left. (or was it left then right? was back in March and April, so details are fuzzy. Vision is clear, though, which is what matters!) Hope you have a similar happy outcome.
my mom had to have cataract surgery at 49, she was mostly blind in her right eye (could see light and shadow but that was it) and she had the other done at the same time. They didn’t even give her valium, so she was extra nervous but she said it was fine in the end. She couldn’t feel her eyes and couldn’t really see what they were doing even in the eye with a mild cataract. She’s a big baby about having anything in her eyes like contacts or those glaucoma tests they do with the puff of air. She did have to use eye drops for a couple months, but now she only needs glasses to see close up, instead of for everything. Her recovery went really well, she was reading and everything the next day. They were a bit sore like with a sunburn, but that was it. That was 15 years ago, and she said she’s glad she had it done.
Good luck, I’m sure you have great doctors. Usually the wait is the worst part.
I had cataract surgery while working at a relatively young age (52). I was scared. I thought it would be awful, but I did not want to be blind, and I was having problems seeing the computer screen (I was a database admin).
It was not awful. I was awake, but definitely drugged up. After the first eye I was amazed at how colors changed for the better. You will love seeing your yarn. After the first eye when I looked at my Kindle with the new lens, it was white and black. The second eye which had not yet had surgery saw the Kindle like a newspaper that had been in the sun for days (yellow and yellow tinged black).
I was so glad that I went ahead and had the second eye done. Now with that said the two months of working while they healed sucked. I am so glad that I did it though.
You’ll probably wear an eye patch overnight, but be cleared the next day. ( We used to help eye doctors on missions to the Dominican Republic, providing cataract and other eye surgeries and other eye care). You’ll be startled how big an improvement you’ll have. Good luck!
Wishing you a speedy and easy recovery!
My mom had to have cataract surgery after an eye injury made her barely there cataract grow faster. (I had no idea injuries could cause cataracts to grow faster until then.) She said it was easier than she thought. The hardest thing was keeping her eye covered afterward which was only for 24 hours. (They may have been more cautious because of her previous eye injury. She took a baseball to the eye at her 13 yo grandson’s baseball game the previous year. Broken orbital bones and a head injury with concussion resulted in a helicopter ride from the ballfield to a trauma hospital. Her face was very colorful for several days and she has a permanently blown pupil in that eye but at least she can still see.)
Anyway, she was amazed at how clear her vision was even immediately after the surgery. It was better than that the next day. She still has to wear glasses but that is because of the traumatic eye injury. She had cataract surgery on the other eye several months later and she was glad she did it both times.
You’ll have heard this from sooo many other people, so I’ll give you a short version of my story:
Not only not a problem, even at 70 it was quick turnaround for each eye, and back to work within a few days.
You will be fine. My husband had cataract surgery last month. He was pretty stressed beforehand. He had never had any type of surgery before. He was very pleasantly surprised at how quick and easy it was. He had one eye done one week and the other the next week. By far the most uncomfortable part was later at home when he had to begin the eye drop regimen. Four times a day to begin and it slowed down from there. The drops were uncomfortable, but necessary. He worked through it. Part of his job is reading blueprints. Before the surgery he struggled with this, even using a magnifying glass. Now he has no problems. He is very happy with his results. I’m sure you will sail through. Hugs.
Aw, poor little cutie. Hope you get some rest.
I had cataract surgery a few weeks ago and the anxiety was mighty. I think it was PTSD from the retina surgery I had to have last year (that then gave me a cataract) for a full depth macular hole (0/10 – do not recommend).
It ended up being a big nothing. You are “awake” but they give you enough sedative so you don’t care. I was in and out of the surgery in about 10 minutes. The worst part for me was the eyedrops and remembering to put them in as directed. They gave me a handy checkoff sheet which I promptly lost.
Good for you for doing this. I heard horror stories just lying there waiting for my retina surgery last year of people who waited to do something about an eye issue.
Eyes are precious. If you have ANY change in vision, no matter how small it might be, see an ophthalmologist ASAP. My macular hole compromised only a small piece of my field of vision but if I had delayed getting it taken care of, I could have ended up with a detached retina.
Sending good vibes for your surgery!
I have gotten down from my eye health soapbox.
I tend to get a bit bossy on the topic since my mom has had eye problems since childhood and now is blind.
I had 2 done last year and there was only one day of uncomfortableness, which some people don’t even experience. I could see well enough to drive home afterward. Now everything is so much more colorful and bright and I can walk around and drive without glasses. A year later and I just got a new prescription for Progressives because I’m tired of walking around with my readers still on and far vision is a little better.
I would rather wear glasses than have multifocal inter-eye lenses.
Nothing to be afraid of.
I had the surgery in my right eye and it was so nice to be able to see again. The surgery was quite quick and recovery time minimal. I was totally freaked out about them touching my eye but thanks to the drugs they gave me I don’t even remember it. Sending good thoughts for your surgery.
Good luck with your surgery. I had both my eyes done, two weeks apart, a couple of years ago. I was stressed out, not quite knowing what to expect with the first eye. Honestly, the worst part was having to get up at 4:00 a.m. for the procedure.
I had the most wonderful feeling of deja vu upon seeing again. It reminded me of the my first pair of glasses at age 13, where I looked out my backyard window and realized the dark smudges on the mountain in the distance were pine trees!
I didn’t realize how boxed in my life had become until after the surgery. I had stopped doing a lot of things because of the cloudy vision. Now my life is back to normal. Yours will be too, and you will be so glad you had the surgery.
A Cataract Inferno with many burning questions, eh? Best of luck with the surgery.
One thing nobody mentioned in all of the positive post cataract surgery, You can go out in the rain and see perfectly because raindrops are not fogging up your glasses.
I couldn’t help but wonder if u include today’s newspaper in the proof of life pics of Sith Rito? Or an iPad showing today’s front page?
Pls do let us know how your surgery goes, and rest assured that even if u post all sorts of wacky things that u don’t remember later, the BDH will not love u any less. Although we might choose to believe they r spoilers for some as yet unwritten works. And then combine them with existing books yielding …well, likely some very odd and unpredictable storylines. Some of which will surely b mutually exclusive, not that that has ever stopped Team Facts B Damned. If u need distraction, perhaps plan out what clues might yield the most confusion…
It’s always exciting to hear y’all have a new ‘short story’ in the works. We adore that sometimes they run longer than expected, and laugh with the joy of a promised treat that might, just might, change from a sparkler into one of those volcanoes in Iceland. Either way, we look forward to the upcoming Inferno!
And pls, do call your surgeon’s office to clarify any details you’re stressing about. It’s not remotely unusual for ppl to have questions later, and there’s no need to b stressed when a call could make sure everyone is on the same page. (Hugs)
I recently had cataract surgery done on both of my eyes over the summer. I am amazed at how well I can see. You don’t realize everything that you’ve missed seeing. I had worn glasses since elementary school and I am 71 now. Don’t worry, you will be fine!
Yay another “SHORT” story!
Can’t wait!
Yesterday and today were – I want to retire NOW days… Then reality arises and the fact there are bills to pay 🙁 My work name will be the AC work day! Fingers crossed for you on the cataract front – concentrate on the fact that you will be so much happier once it is done 🙂
Cataract Inferno… LOLLLL … You are just priceless… I understand the Do Not Want To But Will Have To list… I have one myself…
I am the queen of procrastination and the list grows ever more. I don’t get to it unless I absolutely must, and unfortunately, you absolutely MUST.
I’ll be cheering on for you!
My sister is in Portugal this week too!!! Isn’t that funny!!
she keeps sending me pictures of food… apparently, it’s way cheaper (I don’t know about better) there than NYC. I hope she doesn’t have an indigestion…
She is staying at a lovely place that reminds me of various movie locations, those quaint little paved streets, arched doorways and windows…
I am sure Kid 2 will be having a lovely time once she is certain that Rito darling will survive her absence.
I’ll keep you in my prayers 🥰🙏🏾
When my Dad had his cataracts done he was lying waiting for them to start while the team pottered around him, and said “Could you please tell me when you start” – the surgeon apologised “I’ve already finished”. That must be thirty years ago? More? Anyway I hope the experience is as much of a ‘nothing to it’ for you as it was for him, but lots of supportive thoughts for the stress anyway!
Rito let people sleep though the night now.
I’ve had cataract surgery on both eyes, and the first time my reaction was “you want to do WHAT to my eye?” I don’t even wear contacts, and I’ve worn glasses since I was six. I arrived at the surgery center, they took my blood pressure, looked at the results, and started the drugs.
But it’s not bad. The drugs work; you’re calm, you can’t feel a thing, but you can still respond to instructions like “look left.”
One important tip: remember to shake ALL the bottles of eye drops they give you post-op. I didn’t, and two of the bottles dried up–fortunately after enough of the drug had been dispensed.
Wishing you all the best for your surgery, Ilona!
It’s so very understandable/relatable that you don’t want any part of it. I hope you find it as encouraging as I do to read all these success stories from the BDH.
Also, I’m thrilled there’s a HL short in the works! Yay!
Sending healing vibes & best wishes for the good health of your peepers! If only Doolittle could drop by with some of his special tea and healing!
I had cataract surgery on both eyes a couple of years ago. You will be awake but so high that you won’t care what they are doing. Recovery is very fast hopefully, and the second eye is usually done a month later
I kept working after retirement age because Tax Returns preps pay for kitchen remodel, tree trimming, new bathroom
Cataract surgery isn’t bad. I was offered general anesthetic or the local on the eyeball. I figured since everything would be numb, I wouldn’t need general anesthetic. So I fired up Sweep of the Blade on my mp3 player and didn’t feel a thing. Kind of weird watching it, but that was it. The audiobook was much more interesting.
I have had it done. They actually did my eyes early because I am disabled and was walking with crutches and braces at the time. I really needed to see. I do have glasses for reading and I wear distance glasses for driving. I wore glasses most of my life, so this was not a big deal to me. But it really is a life changer.
You will be fine and the US not for profit health care system is a joke.
I had lens replacement surgery 13 years ago and it changed my life. I too was afraid of being awake but I didn’t feel a thing and I was very relaxed. My husband got me the Mercedes Benz of lenses and after both eyes were done (one at a time) I saw for the first time without glasses since I was a little kid. I was only 50 but the cataracts were so bad I could no longer enjoy reading, needle crafts, or knitting/crocheting and my quality of life was poor due to my limitations. Since the surgery I can do it all again, even thread a needle and I have been completing wips and enjoying my stash. I had come to appreciate my e reader and having a library at my fingertips but it’s the only holdover from my cataract days. Don’t be afraid-clear vision is a gift to yourself and you deserve it!
ok, one thing. Make sure that the anaethetic works. When my mother had cataract surgery, the anaesthetic didn’t work. She told the doctor to stop. he refused and insisted it wasn’t a problem, and continued cutting. She ended up ith ptsd with heavy drinking to deal with it. She only told me years later. There is a pervasive attitude that still exists in some of the medical industry that older women don’t matter. they’ve served their purpose and no one should be expected to spend time for care on them.
I am not my mother. If someone tried to do that to me I would hurt them. I have found that a minimal dose of Xanax is enough to calm my nerves down. I recommend it. Make sure that you have a chance to talk to your surgeon, rather than getting fobbed off on a physician assistant. Do you research, itemize your concerns and address them. Get a couple of doses of anti-anxiety med and everything else will go better.
cataract surgery happens to alll of us eventually, and most people have no problems. I wish you the best of luck with the surgery.
Both my parents have had cataract surgery, my “prone to man-colds” dad and my mother with Alzheimer’s, and they both did very well with easy recoveries. I hope you get enough reassurance here to help a little.
Let us know how the surgery goes. I need it, too. I’m at a 3 and they won’t do it until I’m at a 4. (Have no idea how the grading system works.) To make matters worse, I’m an artist and I have been told I’m not seeing the true colors. When I complained to the doctor, she said, “Well, just take the yellows out of your colors”. I’m sticking with charcoal for awhile.
Blessings, blessings, blessings, all will be well. the incredible upside, I’m told from my ladyfriends who’ve had cataract surgery, is that the colors of the world will immediately be brighter and far more beautiful. It will be joyful! Your yarn will look even more delectable. Your tea will be more colorful. Gordon will buy you a present for being so brave. (Mod R, please make sure Gordon reads this one.) Smiles! All will be well.
I was with my Mom and Dad when they had their cataracts done. It was a breeze and they could read/see well right away, same day! Good luck with your surgery. The propofol will have you out if it did that with your colonoscopy. They always tell me “you’ll be awake but won’t remember anything”. I am always out and still out after the procedure, so propofol is a really good drug!! As Ilona says “he he”.
I’ve had both eyes operated on for cataracts, about a month apart. It’s an easy surgery. I can say this because I’ve had surgeries for blood clots in my leg, hysterectomy, carpal tunnel in both wrists, gallbladder, spine surgeries to fuse all my Lumbar vertebrae, and on and on. I remember decades ago, when my aunt had cataract surgery; and she had to sleep sitting up for a month. My, how things change. But, don’t worry. This will be a breeze. Take a nap afterwards, and just take it slow for a few days. I have a prescription lens for distance in my right eye; and a lens for close work in my left eye. I was so happy to get rid of my glasses. You’ll love it.
I was awake for my cataract surgery. I felt nothing. The surgeon was a nasty POS who was saying crappy things about the previous patient because he apparently did not realize I was awake. Idiot.
They put something in your eye so you don’t feel anything… it will be okay
To be fair, “Magic Pays for the New Roof” is sort of the magic sauce of the Kate Daniels books. Not that you’re doing it for money, but that Kate lives in a world where she leads shapeshifters into battle against monsters, then comes home and fills out insurance forms. Those mundane motivations amid the magic are why you do Urban Fantasy better than anyone.
Bizarrely, I am also having my left eye cataract surgery tomorrow morning (right eye in two weeks) and am similarly terrified. But, I am coming up for my drivers license renewal in a few months, and pretty sure I will not pass without the surgery, so here we go…arrgh.
It is my husband who reads your books and your posts-he left this post up for me because I am less than a week after my first cataract surgery. I have a new lens in my left eye. It was very easy. I was wide awake for the surgery, and I didn’t feel a thing. Mine was for a medical reason, and my vision hasn’t changed at all; yours will probably be much improved if my many friends who have gone through this are to be believed, and I think they are. The surgical prep, IV and numbing drops to the eye, are a little uncomfortable and take way longer than the actual surgery. I’m sorry yours will be expensive for you, but as you say, driving, seeing the computer screen and other things are important. Best wishes, and be well.
Do not stress about cataract surgery, other than the cost. The surgery itself it painless and quick. Probably takes 15-20 minutes. I could see fairly quickly after the surgery. To me the most annoying part was the daily eye drops post surgery.
I had both eyes done several weeks apart. I’m still adjusting to changing from nearsighted to farsighted, but the surgery caused no problems. I just tripped over a curb while I was one eye sighted and bruised my knee. Walk carefully until you adjust.
As someone who had both eyes done I can tell you that the surgery is easy. I hadn’t quite comprehended that the lens would have to be inserted but it was only a few seconds of eek. And they only do one eye at a time in case there are any post op issues. Be prepared for drops by the bucketload – I think they put in like 35 drops before surgery & daily drops were required post surgery too. Of course one wants to heal & not have issues so if drops freak you out, put on the big girl panties & get it done. Long story short, surgery was very successful, no post op issues & to my surprise, I was able to forego wearing glasses which I had NOT expected given my poor eyesight. Of course the lenses are the glasses but still. Best of all I could see again – I was having trouble reading the BIG road signs – normal sized street signs had become completely unreadable & driving at night was right out. Good luck, hope all goes well for you.
Best of luck, fingers crossed, knocking on whatever’s handy, tossing salt over my shoulder and all the other proven methods of magical thinking to make your cataract op go easy as pie.
cataract surgery is scary, had it several years ago. my reaction was the same as yours about being awake for it! but it ended up being okay. all the eye drops were the hardest part of healing for me.
you got this! rest and take care of yourself!
Just focus on the fact that there have been millions of cataract surgeries with good results. As long as your doctor comes well-recommended, it should be a piece of cake, and the colors of the world will become more vibrant!
Short story ….. I’m laughing so hard right now !
Yes! Yes!!!! Name it The Cataract Inferno Collection!!!!!!!
Do not worry, I have had both eyes done. Because of the cost I had to go with he lower priced lenses.
All it meant is I have to use reading glasses for close viewing but my distant viewing is great, of course if you can afford it I would recommend going with the best lenses.
I had cataracts done, oh, 2½ years ago now. Best. option. Ever.
Understand this: I am (was) very myopic. Like seeing-eye dog myopic without glasses or contact lenses. Throughout my life I had needed progressively stronger lenses…so I figured it was just more of the same plus the usual problems of aging eyes. Plus, I had never had surgery.
You may be technically “awake/responsive” during the surgery. You won’t remember it. I remember a few seconds during the first surgery, nothing past being pushed from pre-order toward the OR for the second. Those are good drugs.
The best part? My good eye was 20/400 before…which means I couldn’t see the first line on the chart without lenses. My eyes corrected to 20/20 for my distance eye (Medicare alone won’t get the really good lenses that adjust for both near and far vision, so one eye is for close vision, one for distance) and about 20/100 for the close vision eye—still a huge improvement. I LOVE IT. I do use cheater glasses for close vision still.
Don’t be nervous…OK, you will be, but it went really well. I went home (by girlfriend taxi), slept a bit both times and felt great.
If House Andrews/Mod R are ever out of blog ideas, a rundown of all the pets and grandpets will be appreciated.
I read this the day after my second cataract op. Free on the NHS. No sedation except for eye drop anaesthesia. No pain during the op. Lots of discomfort last night. BUT everything looks brighter if a little hazy today.
Good luck/
Ilona, I had cataract surgery on both eyes (one at a tine) a couple years ago. As an oil painter, it was the best thing I’ve ever done. After the first one, immediately after walking outside in Houston, I said, I can’t believe how blue the sky is!. I was ready to turn around right there for number two. They gave me a couple of pills before surgery. I didn’t feel a thing. It was weird tho. Hand in there. You’ll wonder how you managed before the surgery. Hugs
If it’s similar to laser surgery your head will be immobile and the anesthesia will be top notch but you’re awake. I tried very hard to keep my eyes unfocused and go to my happy place. When you’re done your eyes will feel gritty for a bit but no actual pain. I can tell you removing my wisdom teeth was way worse. I hope it all goes well for you and you have a speedy recovery! 🙏🙏
Personally, I chose monovision! I love it so much. My distance eye is for driving, etc. my other eye is for sewing (white on white, balack on black) I don’t need readers! It is just what I wanted and had tried over the years with contacts. My probably weird brain is not confused by it.
The surgery is apiece of cake. My DL, who fought like cats in a bag at the idea of cataract surgery, had one eye done. At home after that morning, when we took his old glasses lens out on that side so he could see, he exclaimed, “how long before I can get the other eye done?” Life-changing stuff. No pain if you keep up with the drops!
I had cataract surgery. As scary and nasty as it sounds, being awake is really not awful, or even bad. It’s not painful at all. I elected to pay for the laser to break up the cataracts because I’d had a retinal tear in the past, so it did cost me over what insurance paid, but every doctor I checked with recommended the laser for me. May the surgery go smoothly and your post-surgery vision be amazing.
Many, many people have had cataract surgery very successfully.
It’s completely understandable to be nervous.
A note… my husband suffered the *very* rare complication of retina detachment. The doc though because the eye had a scar from a previous small retina tear. Detachment happened 3 days post-op. Went ahead and did the second cataract, expecting no problems again. 5 months later, the retina tore on that eye.
If you see something that kind of looks like lightning, get to the eye doc immediately. Fast intervention can be a game changer.
Do it now before prices go up. Good luck! And Sith Rito is adorable.
I was completely awake during my cataract surgery.
Both my parents have had this surgery. I recommend writing in bold marker on the eye drops. Number them. Then make a chart of what you are supposed to take when. Check off what drops you have used. DO NOT take all the caps off at once- they are color coded and help you identify the drops. Recovery is fast, you will be happy you did it.
Secret text on secret scrolls:
“We have been trying to reach you about your car’s extended warranty.”
Cataracts suck — and so does the surgery!
I’m halfway through mine: have to get both eyes done. As I’m in the UK we have the NHS here so I had a choice of getting them fixed for free but on the eye hospital’s schedule, or paying roughly US $4000 per eye for the Rolls-Royce treatment. Being a cheapskate I took door number one.
Good news: the surgery worked and I didn’t quite levitate off the operating table and it was merely skin-crawlingly bad rather than painful. Four weeks of eye drops later and the eye has remarkable distance vision.
Bad news: they picked the lenses and chose distance. Okay, I’ve got another eye. But they also operated on the eye with 50% peripheral retinopathy, so although the cataract is gone it still doesn’t see too well.
So I’m now waiting for the letter telling me when eye number 2 is going to get stabbed, at which point I’m going to be taking a month off writing until it heals and I can *finally* go back to my ophthalmologist for new varifocal glasses (because my reading prescription will be completely different afterwards).
At least cataract surgery is one-and-done! (I mean, you don’t get a do-over if they botch it. Urk.)
I was awake during my cataract surgeries (3 of them). No, I’m not an altered human, I just had a surgeon who hurried too much and had to re-orient the lens 2 weeks later. Not a fun story .
Be prepared to have a swollen cornea. Most folks don’t get it, but it’s not rare either. For some reason the doctors don’t tell you about it, but, some of us react to the surgical trauma with a swollen cornea. It temporarily fogs your vision completely. You can see light and shapes (sort of), but everything is a full blur. It goes away when the swelling comes down.